Why Family Bonds Matter — The Strength of Our Roots
The strongest trees are those with the healthiest and deepest roots. What would happen to a tree severed from its roots and the earth? It would be cut off from its source of vital energy and its ability to grow. This metaphor reminds us of our family ties and how we relate to our roots.
The Sacred Bond
The blood bond connecting us to our relatives is sacred. These relationships are unlike any other — they are special and deserve respect, care and attention. Imagine invisible threads linking us to our loved ones. When these relationships are carefully nurtured and cherished, energy flows through them and they radiate light. When we neglect them, they shrink, lose vitality and grow dark. These are our lifelines. Eastern traditions teach that maintaining family ties increases wealth and prolongs life. Modern research confirms this — strong family bonds improve both our mental and physical health.
Why We Lose Touch
Life pulls us apart. Work, family, daily responsibilities — time slips away unnoticed. Sometimes old grudges, misunderstandings or conflicts make us avoid contact. Negative memories may come to mind. But beautiful ones exist too. No family is perfect, yet the bond connecting you is stronger than any differences.
What We Can Do
We all feel inspired when we see a large, happy family that supports one another and stays close. We can create this too. Here are a few simple steps:
Take the first step. Call a relative you haven’t spoken to in a while. Revive that long-forgotten connection. Don’t wait until it’s too late.
Forgive and seek forgiveness. Sometimes a sincere word can heal years of hurt. Don’t let pride stand between you and your loved ones.
Nurture your connections regularly. Call your oldest relatives. Ask about the youngest ones’ children. Think of them, pray for them, wish them well.
Be a bridge, not a wall. Be the person who connects others with their families, not someone who divides them. Encourage your partner to maintain ties with their relatives too. Unite people in goodness.
Final Words
As children, we were taught to draw family trees. How beautiful it is when the tree glows with love and respect, with all its branches connected. This is simply a reminder. Our roots give us strength. Caring for them is caring for ourselves.
